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The Power of Surrounding Yourself with the Right People

Writer: Startup BellStartup Bell

Sam Altman’s advice is simple yet profound: surround yourself with people who uplift your ambitions rather than diminish them. While this sounds straightforward, finding such individuals is incredibly rare. Altman emphasizes the importance of creating a positive and ambitious environment for yourself, even if it means searching far and wide—or even online.


Sam Altman, CEO, OpenAI
Sam Altman, CEO, OpenAI

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Why Supportive Circles Are Rare

In many cultures, ambition is met with skepticism or ridicule, a phenomenon Altman likens to the "tall poppy syndrome." This term describes the tendency to cut down people who dare to rise above others in their goals or dreams. Unlike the United States, where ambition is often celebrated, many societies view towering aspirations with suspicion or hostility. Altman underscores that it’s not easy to find spaces where your ambitions are nurtured instead of mocked.


Creating Your Supportive Network

The reality is, most people won’t inherently understand or support your dreams. This is why actively building your network is crucial. Whether it’s seeking out communities, mentors, or even online forums, the key is to find individuals who genuinely encourage growth and push you forward.


For example, countless successful entrepreneurs like Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos have credited their networks for helping them overcome challenges. Musk’s early team at PayPal was composed of highly ambitious individuals who later founded billion-dollar companies themselves. Their shared drive created an environment of relentless ambition.


Finding Your Tribe

If your immediate environment doesn’t provide this support, Altman suggests looking beyond geographic constraints. Online communities can be an incredible resource. Platforms like Twitter, LinkedIn, or niche forums have connected countless people with similar ambitions, offering encouragement and collaboration.


Never Settle for Negativity

At its core, Altman’s philosophy is about protecting your ambitions. If you stay in an environment where your dreams are belittled, you risk shrinking yourself to fit in. By surrounding yourself with positivity, you give your ambitions the space to grow, unhindered by external negativity.


So, take the leap—whether it's finding that ambitious friend, joining an online group, or moving to a new city where your ideas are met with enthusiasm instead of skepticism. Your success might just depend on it.


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